Japan Lair FAQ

What is Japan Lair?
Japan Lair is a place for pickup artists (PUAs), both existing and aspiring, to come together to share insights, tactics, and experiences related to picking up Japanese girls (and girls in Japan), arrange get-togethers for meeting girls or just hanging out, and learn about ways to improve their social skills.

Japan Lair began as an online forum called Tokyo Lair. Based on the concept introduced in Neil Strauss' now classic book The Game, our purpose was, and remains, a place for men to mutually increase knowledge and capacities for picking up and having great relationships with girls -in this case Japanese girls and girls in Japan. In addition to busy online interaction, we have arranged offline meetings and begun to welcome instructors and experts passing through this part of the world. Tokyo, being the biggest city in and the capital of Japan, forms the hub of Japan Lair and has the largest lair. But there are PUAs all over this archipelago, and Japan Lair unites them in this online forum that leads to offline fun. In the future, we also plan to host workshops in the pickup arts and other skills that can help us grow as dynamic individuals.

How do I join the forums?
Go to the Forums page, answer a few questions, and wait to be approved. In most cases you will be approved in a few hours or less.

Why do I have to register?
We do not tolerate those who are here to trash others, scavenge personal information, be a general pain-in-the-youknowwhat. To prevent this type of thing happening, and to keep malcontents away, registration is required. We seek to maintain quality discussion in the Forums.

Can I use bad words and talk about dirty things?
Sure bro. Go crazy. We do not intend to stifle this type of dialogue. Respect other users is all we ask.

Do I have to be in Japan to join?
No, you don't, but you need to have something to contribute to the forums. Perhaps you had a relationship with a Japanese girl? Perhaps you are interested in dating Japanese. Or you used to live in Japan. We welcome members who can positively contribute knowledge, reports, success, failures, and help the other guys out.

I'm a Japanese guy, can I join?
Absolutely. Hey, it's your country after all. Seriously, Japanese guys often have a very different style of game and we are all eager to know what works for you (and what doesn't).

I'd like to be a moderator on the forums.
Terrific. If you're just joined and haven't contributed to the discussion much yet, please get involved and show us that you're here and you're really into this stuff. If you think you can be a good moderator, definitely get in touch.

Genki
Japan Lair Shacho