Japan Lair FAQ

What is Japan Lair?

Japan Lair is a place for men of all ages and level of success with women, those who consider themselves pickup artists, those interested in getting higher quality women, and anyone simply interested in delving into the intricacies and joys of intercultural relationship with the Japanese female We share insights, tactics, and experiences on the the topic of Japanese girls (and girls in Japan), arrange get-togethers all over Japan for meeting girls or merely hanging out, and learn about ways to improve our social skills, finances, and overall success and happiness.

Japan Lair began as an online forum called Tokyo Lair. Based on the concept introduced in Neil Strauss’ now classic book The Game, our purpose was, and remains, a place for men to mutually increase knowledge and capacities for picking up and having great relationships with girls -in this case Japanese girls and girls in Japan. In addition to busy online interaction, we have arranged offline meetings and begun to welcome instructors and experts passing through this part of the world. Tokyo, being the biggest city in and the capital of Japan, forms the hub of Japan Lair and has the largest lair. But there are PUAs all over this archipelago, and Japan Lair unites them in this online forum that leads to offline fun. In the future, we also plan to host workshops in the pickup arts and other skills that can help us grow as dynamic individuals.

How do I join the forums?

Go to the Forums page and register. Be sure to choose a unique name of at least five characters. Don’t use your name or common proper nouns like city names, and don’t use something nonsensical. You will then be sent some questions to answer before you’re accepted in.

Why do I have to register?

We do not tolerate those who are here to trash others, scavenge personal information, be a general pain-in-the-rear. To prevent this type of thing happening, and to keep malcontents away, registration is required. We seek to maintain quality discussion in the Forums.

I just sign up and I’m in?

Applications are approved if you show a valid reason for using the site and you agree to the policies. In principle, you’re in for 24 hours and if don’t post your profile in the User Introductions forum, your account will be deleted. Please post your profile in your first session, using the example provided. If not, you may be booted before you got the chance to call JLair your home away from home.

Can I use bad words and talk about dirty things?

Within reason. Japan Lair aims to allow as free speech as possible; but not if it’s disrespectful of others and creates a socially detrimental environment. After you’re approved for the forums please familiarize yourself with the Mission and Standards.

Do I have to be in Japan to join?

No, you don’t; but you need to have something to contribute to the forums. Perhaps you’ve had a relationship with a Japanese girl. Perhaps you are interested in dating Japanese. Or you used to live in Japan. We welcome members who can positively contribute knowledge, reports, success, failures, and help the other guys out.

Is Japan Lair for profit?

JLair is not not for profit. There are quite a lot of expenses for its design, hosting, and maintenance. On top of that, JLair seeks to provide you with quality products at the best rates possible. I (Genki) personally offer workshops and training and I’m willing to work with other groups provided they are respectful and cooperative. You’ll also find offers for affiliate products; which are posted because I’m confident in them, and not just to take your money.

I’m a Japanese guy, can I join?

Absolutely. Hey, it’s your country after all. Seriously, Japanese guys often have a very different style of game and we are all eager to know what works for you (and what doesn’t).

I’d like to be a moderator on the forums.

Terrific. If you’ve just joined and haven’t contributed to the discussion much yet, please get involved and show us that you’re here and you’re really into this topic. If you think you can be a good moderator, definitely get in touch.

Genki

-Japan Lair Shacho